Pain is the gap between expectations and what actually happens.
That is why, the less pain a person had in the past, the more their speech includes phrases like:
- the economy works like this;
- I know myself completely;
- if this is taught, it must be important;
- I’m sure that is how it will be.
Conversely, the more painful a person’s past was, the less they tend to categorize themselves and the world. Because not wanting to experience pain again makes them consider more and more risks.