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You can only understand what you are predisposed to, but you ca not change it.

If you go against your predisposition, you will soon run out of energy, and life will become more unbearable with each day. I suppose no one would want to spend their life in a “personal hell” rather than a “personal heaven”, so all that remains is to do your function.

So:
This kind of behavior can be compared to a parent who believes they know better who their child should be, who to spend time with, what to be interested in, etc.