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Because any decision you make is based on perception, which is shaped by the structure of society, not independently by you.

It’s not your fault if things are not the way you wanted.

Everything below is simply given:
- results you are not happy with in your career, relationships, etc.;
- something from the past you don’t want to remember;
- all the pain you have felt and will feel;
- something said or done emotionally;
- etc.