I’m glad and appreciate that I have what brings me +impressions, but:
- losing it does not determine how well I will feel in the long term;
- I don’t hold on to it until the very end – as soon as I notice that it is making my state worse, I stop engaging with it.
- People close to you may realize something new about themselves, and that may lead to the end of the relationship.
- The circumstances that once made it possible for you to have a certain status, possession, hobby, etc. can also change.

That is why there is no point in relying on this from the start, because by doing so, you put yourself at risk of experiencing a lot of pain at a very unexpected moment in the future.
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