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Because everyone sees the world in their own way + no one knows the truth.

Therefore, right / wrong and “mistakes” are fictional categories that distort perception.
The same goes for anything: health, communication, work, hobbies, etc.

That is, every action makes your state – your life – better and / or worse to some degree.

Therefore:

When a person perceives the world through the category of “most and least effective,” they are able to live their best life, because each choice is directed toward improving their circumstances.

When a person perceives the world through the categories of “right / wrong” and “mistakes,” they become a hostage to everything society takes to be “truth / mistake / rule, etc.”. As a result, they will experience as much pain as they build their life against themselves.
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