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Because any decision you make is based on perception, which is shaped by the structure of society, not independently by you.

It’s not your fault if things are not the way you wanted.

Everything below is simply given:
- results you are not happy with in your career, relationships, etc.;
- something from the past you don’t want to remember;
- all the pain you have felt and will feel;
- something said or done emotionally;
- etc.
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A person is a combination of:
1. The original algorithm of perception (actions that improve life – can be trusted 100%);
2. The adaptive part (how society has distorted your perception – why you make destructive choices, thinking they are constructive).